Affair Dispellor: When Harmony Replaces Honesty in Chinese Love

In Affair Dispellor, filmmaker Elizabeth Lo exposes China’s secret world of “affair fixers.”
As a Chinese-born, American-trained couples therapist, I explore how cultural values of harmony, shame, and emotional restraint shape modern relationships—and what this means for love, honesty, and differentiation in China today.

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