Does any of these describe you and your partner(s)?
You have “bad fights” and do not talk to each other for days. 
You are not on the same team and your family suffers from this.
One or both of you constantly feel anxious, tiptoeing around to avoid anger outbursts or accusations.
You crave relaxing, fun, and connecting time with your partner(s) but are too overwhelmed to plan anything.
Both of you feel guarded most of the time.  None of you feel safe to share what you really think or feel.
You feel isolated, alone, and down in the pit being in this relationship.  
You feel stuck. 
You cannot get your message crossed to your partner.